Ladies: I have 3 questions about what these women were thinking at a dance club?
Ladies: I have 3 questions about what these women were thinking at a dance club?
1) You walk around at a club minding your own business and a sexy, attractive woman who’s talking to three guys, makes quick eye contact with you while she’s talking to them, and this happens several times….
2) One time a girl I was in front of the line with was at the bar with me and she smiled and pointed and said "You were in line with me, weren’t you?" Was that a cue to start convo? Because I did, and introduced myself and asked her where she was from and if she came here alot. Then when she went to leave to go back to her friends I said "Mind if I call you?", then she said "My bf might mind." She was a sweetheart, and didn’t seem like the usual "ilk" that goes there, but do you think I was charming enough to her she’d say yes if she was single?
3) And finally, a woman did catch my eye that I talked to and chatted with. This was after I walked near her and she smiled towards me and asked her if I knew her from some place. I know women can pick up on that crap…..
2 days ago – 1 day left to answer.
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2 days ago
and im not the "cheesy pick up line" type of guy, but I’ve said stuff like that as an excuse to break the ice. She kept smiling a little, but didn’t really get it, so I asked her where she was from and she stood there bewildered with this "I don’t understand English" smirk, shrugging her shoulders, when I knew she was American and she was from NJ. There was a guy near them and he glanced at me and I asked her "Is that your bf?" she smiled and said no, I saw the convo was going nowhere, I was kind of bombing, I got the vibe she wasn’t interested, so I took mental note and moved on. I smiled and said "It was nice meeting you" and she brushed my arm with her hand.
It’s ok if she wasn’t interested, it happens….but could i have done anything differently, or do you think it just wasn’t meant and do you credit me, 27 and still having lots of confidence to start convos with women?
Also, why was the guy looking at me?
he plays the violin, with me at school) he might volunteer at a summer camp like program to help with young violinists that my teacher is creating at our school, and when i asked him if he wanted to too, and mentioned off hand kinda that i was going to too, he said sure. and he is just super nice to me most of the time, and we are pretty much super comfortable talking to each other about a lot of stuff. wow, now that i reread that, i think we might have something. is this where relationships start and should i talk to him about it and ask him. if i should, what should i say, and NO CHEESY "PICK UP LINES!" should i have a heart to heart conversation, or would that scare him? i only have like 7 more days of school, so not a lot of time to figure it out. HELP PLEASE!!